
No one is born a bimbo. Not even me. Becoming Bimbo Luxe has been a complicated process. Every one of us is on a journey. I started off as a girl next door. But there was a bimbo inside me waiting to be unleashed. I’m still finding perfect bimbo perfection. Today, I’m looking back at how the journey started.
First Steps
I am happy to report that Bimbology is back on-line after an unfortunate interruption. Candy and I both write blogs about being a bimbo in Second Life. We’re going to touch on the same topics. But we have very different approaches. A common theme in bimbo culture is transformation.
Every bimbo goes on a journey of some kind. It’s going to be different for everyone. I think people imagine a straight-line from girl next door to Baywatch. It’s not that simple though. Like any transformation, becoming a bimbo can be messy. There are times when you might wonder what the hell you’re doing. Is this really who you are? Maybe you regress. Maybe it’s a phase.
There are no wrong ways to bimbo. The important thing is to do what feels right to you. Don’t feel pressured to have blonde hair or big tits. For god’s sake, don’t let anyone pressure you into promiscuity. If something appeals to you, try it on for size. If it doesn’t feel right, you can stop doing it.
With that in mind, I want to walk through some of the paths of my bimbo journey. Your transformation may be similar at times. Our paths will certainly diverge. Bimbos are like snowflakes. Each one is unique and special. I am not here to invalidate anyone’s experience. Please feel free to share the details of your transformation in the comments below.
Girl Next Door
Most bimbos start out as the girl next door. You can also be the guy next door. We don’t all start off in the same place. That’s perfectly fine. For my experience, I was the girl next door. So, I’m going to use that gendered term. Please don’t place too much importance on it. Gender is a construct anyway.
I grew up in a very quaint suburb in the great state of Kentucky. It’s not how you imagine. More Leave It to Beaver than Green Acres. I’m from the northern part of the state. I don’t so much have a Southern accent as a hint of a drawl. One of my college roomies used to call me “Yankee”. I was blonde and pretty. A nice, unassuming girl. I was the girl next door.
I didn’t realize it at the time. The girl next door is special. But not in the same way as a bimbo. You can’t miss a bimbo. Bimbos stand out. The girl next door is pretty, but not so much that she can’t blend in. Little boys (and maybe some girls) crush on the girl next door. They want to ask her out, but they don’t know how.
The girl next door is smart. She has opinions. She’s probably funny too if you pay attention. The girl next door might be shy. Or she might be a manic pixie dream girl. There are subsets within any group. Like bimbos, no two girls are the same. She probably has a talent. Something she’s really good at. But you have to get to know her to know what it is.
At some point, the girl next door blossoms. This is a critical stage in her evolution. In my case, adolescence came a little later. The summer it caught up with me, I grew a foot taller and several cup sizes. Suddenly, I stood out in ways that made me uncomfortable. I wore bulky clothes. If I went to a pool party, I wore the biggest cover-up I could find. But nothing worked.
Trapped in a New Body
Physical changes came along faster than my mind could adapt to them. I was still the girl next door. Unassuming. I noticed that people looked at my differently. That was painfully obvious. Men looked at me like they looked at my mom. She was a girl next door once too. We had a lot of talks about my “changes”. It helped some, but I was still embarrassed for a long time.
I still wanted to be a teenage girl. I went to bed one way and it felt like I woke up someone else. It happened over the summer, so when I went back to school everyone treated me differently. Guys stared and acted stupid. Some girls gushed. Others loathed me. There was no hiding anymore. I stood out.
I was still the girl next door. But I didn’t look like her anymore. There was a disconnect. I felt like that movie, 13 Going on 30 but with bigger boobs. They were absolutely maddening. I wore sports bras to keep them under control. My undergarments could only squish so much. I was a teenage girl trapped in the body of co-ed.
My initial reaction was to retreat. I didn’t go out as much. When I did, I tried to act like nothing had changed. If anything, I gravitated towards more childish activities. I didn’t want to go to any dances. And I definitely didn’t want a date.
As the girl next door, I found myself the focus of crushes. But now, I inspired something else. Not lust, because we were all too young for that. My new body stirred things in the boys that they didn’t fully understand. They were going through changes of their own. Looking back, yeah, they were beating off thinking about me. I know that now.
A Gradual Transition
Little by little, I got used to my figure. It got me attention. And it turns out, I like that. There were definitely upsides to being busty. People were nice to the girl next door. But they practically worshiped the new me. Boys tripped over themselves to get me what I wanted. Just to be seen by me. All I had to do was giggle to get a reaction.
I started dressing for attention. I mean, there was a dress code. This was a very conservative school district. And I was still mostly in the mindset of the girl next door. At first, I stopped covering my body in layers. Then I showed a little leg. Some tummy-bearing. Cleavage was the last to be put on display. And even then, modestly.
With the clothes came hair and make-up. Lots of tutorials. My babysitting money funded trips to the mall. There was an awkward phase where I probably looked like a clown. But the boys didn’t mind. They weren’t looking at my face anyway. With time, my skills improved. I learned to blend and contour. I barely recognized myself anymore.
Over time, the girl next door disappeared. Replaced by someone youthful but more mature. I wasn’t yet a bimbo, but my look was ultra feminine. I wouldn’t leave the house without my face on. Hair done did. My defining trait, vanity, was taking root. I didn’t know where this path would take me. But it felt right. I was finding myself for the first time.
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