Bimbo Life Inworld: Celebrating the New Year

This time last year, I was working inworld as an escort. Since then, everything has changed. Now I’m a bimbo influencer finding my way and living my truth.

Cha-cha-changes

The end of the year is a time of contemplation. Even for bimbos. 2025 was a big year for me in Second Life. Midyear, I repurposed this site. Originally, I started this website as part of my Second Life fashion blogging efforts. Turns out, a traditional blog is a lot more work than other forms of social media. The return on investment just wasn’t there for me. I let that version of the website lapse.

I have considered myself a bimbo for years. But the degree to which I engage in my bimbodom varies. Prior to the rebrand, there were several factors holding me back. A lot of potential sponsors aren’t interested in having a bimbo as a fashion blogger. Embracing that image limited my options for sponsorships. This year, I decided it was better to live my truth in Second Life.

This is a decision I came to gradually. Ever since, I have been finding my way. The rebrand was originally intended to support my primary inworld activity at the time. At the time, I was working as an escort at a popular sex bar. For a variety of reasons, my time at the bar came to an end. Ever since, I’ve been trying to find a new status quo.

Inworld Challenges

This brings me to a point I’ve been dancing around. Most of the things I do related to Second Life don’t actually take place inworld. I spend more time in social media than I do in the virtual world. I have come to realize that this sets me apart from most Second Life residents. Looking back, I spent a lot of my time in 2025 looking for the right balance.

Just before Christmas, I got some unfortunate news. I have written about another SL bimbo blogger named Candy. Candy’s blog was apparently getting more readers than mine. I attributed some of her success to her inworld activity exceeding mine. Candy was available to anyone who wanted to meet her inworld. My availability is much more limited.

The last time I checked in on Candy, she suspended her blog due to inworld harassment. She came back to the blog for a while but never returned to Second Life. The door was left open for a return, but it never happened. For a time, there was a note from Candy explaining why she left Second Life for good. It’s a shame. I hope Candy finds what she’s looking for whether it includes a virtual world or not.

The Gender Gap

Another common theme has been bridging the gender gap in SL. As always, when I discuss gender in SL, I am referring to avatar choice as opposed to real life. There is no way to know the latter and in my opinion it’s irrelevant to the virtual world.

Many guys I talk to in Second Life feel unfairly treated by women. I don’t want to discount anyone’s experience. But there’s another side to it. If guys are being harassed out of SL, I haven’t heard about it. Unfortunately, there are a lot of stories out there about girls like Candy. As a woman, I’m taking a chance every time I let someone into my inner circle. Statistically, the risks are much greater when that person is male.

This is a generalization. But there’s truth behind it. The risks for me, I think, are relatively low. I have lots of male friends in SL. I give people the benefit of the doubt until they give me reason not to. I also give second and third chances. As 2025 comes to a close, I realized that my inworld obligations were stressing me out in real life.

Resolution

As I enter the new year, I continue tweaking the formula. In seeking new inworld experiences, I overshot. My goal for 2026 is to narrow my focus. Real life puts a lot of restrictions on my SL. When I spent time inworld, I need to make sure I’m taking care of my own needs. I’d say no one else is going to. But that’s not true. I’ve been blessed with a perfect partner. I can’t think of a better way to spend my inworld time than being with Darden.

Darden and I tied the knot immediately after my escorting career ended. It was my first and best decision. She supports all of my endeavors even when I run off and do something impulsive – which is often.

I was initially nervous about revealing my bimbo self to her. Darden knew me from the bar where I was prohibited from fully embracing bimbodom. I wasn’t sure how she would react. But Dar put those worries to bed (hehe). She celebrates my bimbodom! If not for her, I don’t think I could explore this side of myself as freely as I am. It’s a wonderful feeling that recharges my batteries rather than draining them.

My situation is different from most people in Second Life. Most people engage with the virtual world directly. Their inworld experiences are everything. Some people share those experiences through social media. But even for them, the balance is focused heavily on inworld relationships and experiences. I’m an outlier. However, I think the balance between reality and fantasy is something we all have to deal with.